Monday, December 24, 2012

Chosen Mothers

A fellow ONC Mom posted this on her wall. Wanted to share with all of you.


By Erma Bombeck

Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures, and a couple by habit.
Did you ever wonder how mothers of children with life threatening illnesses are chosen?

Somehow, I visualize God hovering over Earth selecting His instruments for propagation with great care and deliberation.
As He observes, He instructs His angels to make notes in a giant ledger.
"Armstrong, Beth, son, patron saint Matthew. Forrest, Marjorie, daughter, patron saint Cecilia. Rutledge, Carrie, twins, patron saint Gerard."

Finally, He passes a name to an angel and says, "Give her a child with cancer."
The angel is curious. "Why this one God? She's so happy."

"Exactly" smiles God, "Could I give a child with cancer a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel."

"But, does she have patience?" asks the angel.

"I don't want her to have too much patience or she will drown in a sea of self-pity and despair.
Once the shock and resentment wears off, she will handle it."

"I watched her today. She has that feeling of self and independence that is so rare and so necessary in a mother. You see, the child I'm going to give her has it's own world. She has to make it live in her world and that's not going to be easy."

"But, Lord, I don't think she believes in you." No matter, I can fix that. This one is perfect. She has just enough selfishness."
The angel gasps -"Selfishness? is that a virtue?"

God nods. "If she can't separate herself from the child occasionally, she'll never survive. Yes, here is a woman whom I will bless with a child less than perfect. She doesn't realize it yet, but she is to be envied. She will never take anything her child does for granted. She will never consider a single step ordinary. I will permit her to see clearly the things I see...ignorance, cruelty, prejudice...and allow her to rise above them." She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life, because she is doing My work as surely as if she is here by My side."

"And what about her patron Saint?" asks the angel. His pen poised in mid-air. God smiles, "A mirror will suffice."

1 comment:

  1. Hi Angela, Jan Luna here. You have been on our minds and hearts and in our prayers. I love this "Chosen Mother". Do you mind if I copy it and give it to Heather, my DIL? I'm so sorry Heaven is having more problems. I knew you both were on my heart for a reason. So Joe and I prayed more often for Heaven. We do everyday, but now it's several times a day.
    I hope your Christmas was wonderful and we pray that Heaven is healed in 2013. If not any second, we'll take NOW right? Emily is in limbo. She has Doctors in Wisconsin Children's hospital, Gallisono's Children's Hospital here, and John Hopkins scratching their heads. They have never seen a case like hers. We believe Our Saviour is healing her, very, very slowly, but healing her none the less. She now has plans to become a Doctor who specializes in Aplastic Anemia for children especially. And she wants to be a missionary for children in poor sections of the world. Our children are amazing! As of course, is our Saviour. So we have decided to claim that healing for both girls. We wish you all a happy and healthy New Year. A calmer year for healing and recuperating. God Bless Heaven, you and your entire family. Hugs, Jan